TOI Author need to MIND

TO : mytimesmyvoice@timesgroup.com

Dear Sir/Madam,

This is with reference to the article in TOI Crest – Mind the Gap, 08 May 2010:

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Mind-the-gap-/articleshow/5906289.cms

This article is full of wrong and misleading information.

1) >> For instance, consider the absence of consent as a prerequisite for Hindu marriage. <<

Refer Hindu Marriage Act – Sec 12-1(c) : This section clearly states that a marriage is voidable if the consent is obtained wrongly.

2) >> Adding insult to injury, the provision relating to adultery makes it clear that only a husband can initiate criminal proceedings. There is no such corresponding right granted to the wife <<

Refer HMA Sec 13 -1(i) : There is a clear provision to get divorce if any of the spouse has voluntary intercourse outside wedlock

Refer IPC 497 : This is a totally biased law which FAVORS only WOMEN. If a woman is living in adultery only her Male partner can be prosecuted. The law shields the woman completely. Which means, if a woman is living in adultery a husband cannot initiate any action against her. On the contrary, if a husband indulges in adultery, his wife can not only ask for divorce but also initiate CRIMINAL proceedings against her husband!!!

What does the author say on this??

The NCW is one of the most corrupt organizations which is consistently working to create gender-biased laws which break families and create disharmony in society. IPC 498a, Domestic Violence etc are examples of such laws which are harassing innocents in the name of Gender Equality!!

From the article it is very clear that the author has NO UNDERSTANDING of the laws prevailing in India and wrote about HIGHLY IMAGINARY stuff.

You would do well to deny such authors any space on Times of India pages/site, as such articles create unnecessary panic in society by providing misleading information.

Regards,

Abhishek

Good in BED or good in HEAD?

Would you like to share thoughts on who is better  – a Porn star or a Wife ?

Is it a controversial subject?

Should this be discussed at all?

Oh my, how can anyone even attempt to compare a Porn artist to a Wife?

After all, a Porn star is one who earns by selling sex and a symbol of lust!

While a wife, the bond with her, so sacred, spiritual, personification of love!

But, isn’t this an age old debate – lust vs love?

Well, here I’m not going to put who is good in BED, but who is better in HEAD… read on ..

The Porn star

Have a look at the video below. There’s this porn star who looks younger than her age. A man (not the one in the vid) was caught with some porn movie of hers and arrested and charges framed on him for possession, promotion and indulgence into CHILD PORNOGRAPHY.

This porn star lady was informed about the case. She felt for the man for getting wrongly framed for no fault of his own. Made it a point to visit the court and proved her age that she is adult. What a humane behaviour!!

This bold and helpful act of hers saved the accused from a 20 years’ prison punishment.

The Wife

Now, have a look at the news item below from India.

This wife first files a false case on her husband. Then to make his life miserable, she befriends with a cop. The give and take game  – wife offers herself to the cop to extract return favor from him to screw her husband. Once, her task is done, she capitalize on another extortion venture by framing the same cop in a false charges of her rape!!

INGENUITY at its BEST!!

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Call-records-give-the-lie-to-rape-charge/articleshow/5692323.cms

(The cop was lucky, as being a cop he could arrange for evidences to save his a$$. If a common man would have been in place of this cop, he would have either rotted his life in jail or yielded to extortion demands )

And what of comparison:

Porn star:

Good in bed  – YES  ….  😎

Good in head – DEFINITELY

The WIFE:

Good in bed – hmmm… YES (she could attract interest from cop)…

Good in head — Now c’mon guys… don’t insult her ingenuity by saying she’s not good in head!!

Do let me know your thoughts by posting comments !!

Women unleash Domestic Violence – Times of India

http://bit.ly/bvRRTE

Dear Madam,

I was pleasantly surprised to read an article from you on MEN’s issues in an otherwise FEMINIST Times of India.

Congratulations to you for writing this article and convincing TOI to actually publish this piece!!

Domestic Violence is not a gender issue.

And, as carried out in your article as well, no matter how good a leader or achiever a man is in the outside world, within his own house he can be a subject to domestic violence perpetrated by his female partner. And while lot of feminists and their sympathizers are quick to stand up in support of the women facing DV, there is no such support available to MEN. And this is just because some false notions among govt/society/media that MEN are strong and can never be at the receiving end of DV.

This false notion can be corroborated by the fact that there is ministry for Women and Child Development, National Commission for Women, even ministry for animals. But there is no ministry or commission for MEN.

Even society does not encourage men to come out with their problems openly and blindly assumes that only women can be victims.

Moreover, the laws have been made gender-biased, where only women can file cases and rules have been made to favor women when deciding such cases.

This is the reason why the reported cases of abuse faced by men are less in number while the actual number is much bigger.

Not only this, the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, is an example of a gender-biased and poorly drafted law which mostly aids in mis-carriage of justice by allowing false complaints. There is no provision to punish women who misuse this act by filing false complaints.

There is an urgent need to make laws as gender-neutral and also to start a systematic study to identify and quantify the issues faced by men.

Media should play a role by highlighting issues faced by men as well as regularly as it does for issues faced by women.

Regards,

Abhishek